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Malcolm “MJ” Harris helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of National Care Financial Group, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.


  1. MJ Harris

    MJ Harris12 days ago

    Stylist @mickeyboooom Glasses @fenty Outfit @savagexfenty Necklace: @_jennybird

  2. Aliya Adams

    Aliya Adams6 days ago

    5 minutes in and I fucking love you and I need your attitude and ur mindset

  3. NY Native Tv

    NY Native Tv9 days ago

    Unleash the body!!!!!!!

  4. Aisha Bey

    Aisha Bey11 days ago

    You are right on it. that candy bar.

  5. MsLIbra1009

    MsLIbra100912 days ago

    Speak on it!

  6. Yep It’s Me

    Yep It’s Me12 days ago

    Every Time You Take A Sip, I Crack TF Up 😩🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😆😆

  7. Shoneece Wilson

    Shoneece Wilson7 hours ago

    Listening to MJ Harris has been the highlight of this last week! What rock was I living under😅😆

  8. Lyanka Pimentel

    Lyanka Pimentel2 days ago

    Luvvvvv u

  9. Lucila Acendra

    Lucila Acendra4 days ago

    I’m so glad I came across this I need sometimes a reality check 🤗🤗🤗


    STREET KEEKS TV4 days ago

    The reality check I always need 🇬🇧

  11. Kennedy Vincent

    Kennedy Vincent4 days ago

    Help me!! I am texting a guy currently and he is the one who reached out to me and told me he wanted to get to know me. And our schedules are really busy for the most part because we’re college students, working and playing sports so there’s a lot going on. However in the beginning he used to always make time to hang out with me and now plans seem to keep getting canceled. Like yesterday we were supposed to hang out and then he canceled those plans and I was happy because I was busy myself. So the feeling was mutual. Later on that day he texted me and asked if I wanted to study in the library together and I told him I was taking my midterm and we could do that tomorrow. Tomorrow is today and he canceled the study date today claiming that he was busy. I’m just trying to figure out where I should go from here.

  12. Shan Bellaa

    Shan Bellaa3 days ago

    Don’t do nothing move on he’s clearly not a man of his word you don’t need that

  13. Daniel Kaseke

    Daniel Kaseke4 days ago

    I love you MJ😘

  14. Tia Hunte

    Tia Hunte4 days ago

    Represent the Pisces ♓️ you just look fab in all RIRI.go ahead with ya bad self love it 💜❤️❤️👑

  15. Ryan Williams

    Ryan Williams5 days ago

    My wife and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when she got a new Job in NewYork months ago, we have been in a long distance relationship for some months,She has been avoiding my calls and i got suspicious of her cheating.I asked my wife about it and she told me that she is always busy and working ,We had a big argument about it,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James a PI/Hacker who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my wife’s Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my wife’s phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in her Text messages, Emails and pictures that my wife has an affair with her co-worker. I have sent all the evidence to my lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer, You can contact him on Gmail (Worldcyberhackers ) or WhatsApp +12678773020 ,I Feel so sad about infidelity

  16. Ebony Stewart

    Ebony Stewart7 days ago

    I living my whole life for you😍😍😍😍😍😍

  17. Sharon Byrd

    Sharon Byrd7 days ago

    Yes; Babe. A Woman or a Man must k now their self-worth. As long as you know that and that you're not willing to except less, they will give you the self respect. My Husband is 17 years older then I. He is 58 and I'm 41. Let me tell you Babes, I get much respect and. Appreciation. Because I know my self worth. 😁

  18. fheard11

    fheard117 days ago

    Just discovered this channel and I am thoroughly entertained. Comedy, skits and good advice all at the same time. ☺️

  19. Jo Higgins

    Jo Higgins7 days ago

    Put a apple beside your bed take a bite before kissing.Natrual breath freshener. This definitely will work you bite give him a bite romantic.

  20. Suzwanna Mayfield

    Suzwanna Mayfield7 days ago

    You are very relatable, honest without being unkind, you’re not gender specific and hilarious 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  21. Suzwanna Mayfield

    Suzwanna Mayfield7 days ago

    I see so many couples living in misery, because they don’t have this conversation! I had a similar conversation with someone about slowing things down- he was pist so I just walked away I’m not living in misery 🤦🏽‍♀️

  22. Suzwanna Mayfield

    Suzwanna Mayfield8 days ago

    I think what it is-society put unrealistic values of women to keep a man and if you don’t you’re a failure or something is wrong with you.

  23. PaisleyDragon Hostler

    PaisleyDragon Hostler8 days ago

    I just adore you. You are too fabulous for the people.🥰😊.

  24. Blossom Goddy-Oti

    Blossom Goddy-Oti8 days ago

    Please, can I get your email MJ

  25. Elizabeth DeRosa

    Elizabeth DeRosa8 days ago

    LOVE THIS!!!!

  26. Angelica Harmon

    Angelica Harmon8 days ago


  27. Deneen King

    Deneen King8 days ago


  28. Marqueta Harris

    Marqueta Harris8 days ago

    When I say I needed an MJ in my life, at THIS point in my life, making me boss the eff up and remembering just who the hell I am!!

  29. NY Native Tv

    NY Native Tv9 days ago

    Suburban Mama 🤣🤣

  30. Anna M

    Anna M9 days ago

    My husband left me for another woman. Completely blindsided me but it was the best thing that ever happened. He did be a favour. I have a second chance at life. I now only live my life for ME.

  31. Julz77

    Julz779 days ago

    Where were you my whole life?!!!!! 😘

  32. angela gatewood

    angela gatewood9 days ago

    Those gentle glasses. Work it MJ..

  33. angela gatewood

    angela gatewood9 days ago

    I have a Mike, Steven and Carlos.. LOL Go to work...

  34. angela gatewood

    angela gatewood9 days ago

    You are the funniest everrrrrr!!

  35. angela gatewood

    angela gatewood9 days ago

    Call Yourself out day and night... Love you

  36. angela gatewood

    angela gatewood9 days ago

    Love the look. Hot MJ!! 💋

  37. Alo Mike

    Alo Mike9 days ago

    Are you in a relationship? do you have a fiance online? Yet to see his/her real face?. Then follow and DM mindblowhacker on instagram. Also recover lost or hacked social media accounts. (know more of what your partner is doing online) MINDBLOWHACKER

  38. Maria Noble

    Maria Noble9 days ago

    I just love you and your advice❤️

  39. Brianna Speezy

    Brianna Speezy9 days ago

    I love the transition idea and moving in silence

  40. Kelvina Salters

    Kelvina Salters9 days ago


  41. Karen Rogers

    Karen Rogers10 days ago

    Best advise ever. You are cute and smooth too.. Those ghetto ones who often try fighting the other women need to hear this.

  42. Necia Smith

    Necia Smith10 days ago

    😂😂😂😂so damn crazy😂😂😂💅💅loving it😂😂😂

  43. mamatez Kamau

    mamatez Kamau10 days ago

    You is such a whole vibe 😘

  44. PamelaL

    PamelaL10 days ago

    A Pisces knows how to do it ❣ Bye👋🏾

  45. Karey

    Karey10 days ago

    This guy is a whoooooole vibe 😄😄😄🥱

  46. Bernice Fay

    Bernice Fay10 days ago

    I’m so happy I found you 🤍

  47. Tarah Bruno

    Tarah Bruno10 days ago

    MJ serving looks! Those glasses 🔥🔥

  48. Gift Hidin

    Gift Hidin10 days ago

    You sound just like madea😂

  49. Miqueala Williams

    Miqueala Williams10 days ago


  50. Angela Weeks

    Angela Weeks10 days ago

    LOL 😂🤣😂 I love you, so honest and transparent! Don't change! And you are looking very pretty❤🥰❤🌹❤🌹❤

  51. Symphony Celeste

    Symphony Celeste10 days ago

    🙌🏽😂 preach 💯 MJ is the truth😎

  52. Lilly Gutierrez

    Lilly Gutierrez10 days ago

    You so sexy and sweet

  53. Tenora Smith

    Tenora Smith10 days ago

    Heyyyyy MJ

  54. Faridah Nakayemba

    Faridah Nakayemba10 days ago

    So gald your back love your content

  55. Tenora Smith

    Tenora Smith10 days ago

    Hey MJ

  56. Denise Hagan

    Denise Hagan10 days ago

    Hey can anyone tell me what time MJs live chat usually begins?

  57. Fleek Fit Caribbean // Hip-Hop Dance Workouts

    Fleek Fit Caribbean // Hip-Hop Dance Workouts11 days ago

    𝐔𝐍𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐇 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐁𝐎𝐃𝐘 𝐌𝐉!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  58. Sweet Lo

    Sweet Lo11 days ago


  59. Samnang Keo

    Samnang Keo11 days ago

    I 💯completely agree with you in regards to “Relationships doesn’t last forever” I am going through this with my children’s father currently.

  60. Pamela Harrington

    Pamela Harrington11 days ago

    My name is Emma and I was seeing someone. He keeps saying he wants to be with me but he never ever makes any contact with me unless I contact him sure if this is him stringing me along or not

  61. Toxic_Jd 123

    Toxic_Jd 12311 days ago

    Love you Bestfriend you are always looking good and have it together you don't have to worry about anything God Bless enjoy all the time 😊💜💛❤💖😘

  62. Yahaira Cope

    Yahaira Cope11 days ago

    I totally love this mindset 😂😂😂😂

  63. Media Drops

    Media Drops11 days ago

    Your awesome MJ, love you

  64. Smooth Morrison

    Smooth Morrison11 days ago

    Best dressed. 💃💃💃🎉🌈. 😇✌️❤️🍷

  65. Ascension Girl

    Ascension Girl11 days ago

    Goodness, I l o v e your energy 😩😍 fkkkk

  66. T reiss

    T reiss11 days ago

    I needed this lol. You give me life!

  67. Veronica Atkins

    Veronica Atkins11 days ago

    I was feeling so down today and you always cheer me up. I swear I love you ❤️😊😁

  68. Amber Harper

    Amber Harper11 days ago

    Damnn I just love you, where have you been all of my life MJ❤️ I’ve been binge watching you, sending your videos to all of friends and co workers know we all need your advice! Your energy is EVERYTHING and you know how fabulous you are but remain humble which is the most beautiful thing about you!! Keep them coming, thank you so much😘

  69. Mattie A

    Mattie A11 days ago

    I'm always missing your lives🤣🤣🤣 shit!

  70. Sherry Bell

    Sherry Bell11 days ago

    Gorgeous Darling:)

  71. Stacy Heyliger

    Stacy Heyliger11 days ago

    I thoroughly enjoyed this

  72. Jackie B

    Jackie B11 days ago

    I see u honey looking Faboulous Darling keep coming with the shit's Queen M.J.# One time for nikki Freeman with the hot styles bitchh🤜🤛👏👏

  73. Shaelynn Moon

    Shaelynn Moon11 days ago

    I've only been with 3 people and I been married 26 years. But being with the same man I got comfortable enough to let my inhibitions go and I learned a few tricks on my own. And I do my kegels ( I know it's spelled wrong sorry 😞) and it my a huge difference in the strength 💪

  74. Philly CheeseCakesss

    Philly CheeseCakesss11 days ago

    The ending 😂😂😂😂 another great video as usual 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  75. Crystal Cooper

    Crystal Cooper11 days ago

    Yesss MJ... You speak nothing but truth... AND I LOVE IT❤

  76. Shaelynn Moon

    Shaelynn Moon11 days ago

    Your dental health is very important so much so it can effect your heart and cause problems.

  77. littlbbygl29

    littlbbygl2911 days ago

    Oh! She's a Pisces ♓ Rhianna ? That's a turnoff for me.

  78. Shesus Christ

    Shesus Christ11 days ago

    Awww sheeit my mj lookin good How you doin?😘

  79. Jay star

    Jay star11 days ago

    Love ❤️ MJ✨Always keep it real☺️

  80. Mimi Drah

    Mimi Drah11 days ago

    You are my favorite to listen to in the morning while doing my makeup and hair😂😂😂😂😂

  81. Nicole Thomas

    Nicole Thomas11 days ago

    We going shopping together M.J. You killing it 🌟

  82. Dominé

    Dominé11 days ago

    That “by the pool” scenario had me rolling!

  83. Dominé

    Dominé11 days ago

    If someone has been “there the whole time” don’t they get played early on? Whilst he’s growing into that person , he’s gonna do his thing, only for him to find out YOU’RE IT? So if he comes back, stating all that.... should you let him wife you up?

  84. The Memo

    The Memo10 days ago

    If you single, and someone you like is trying to wife you up, sounds like you should go for it. Can always stay level headed. 💗

  85. Dominé

    Dominé11 days ago

    Killin that outfit !!!!!!! Can’t wait to wear my fenty savage for my man!

  86. Dominé

    Dominé11 days ago

    Less than 7 minutes in & you’ve touched my soul yet again! I need to meet my REMINDER! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  87. Gene'e Mustin

    Gene'e Mustin11 days ago

    U are too funny

  88. Kaye Smith

    Kaye Smith11 days ago


  89. Olasimbo Odutayo

    Olasimbo Odutayo11 days ago

    Love these rings... 💕

  90. Olasimbo Odutayo

    Olasimbo Odutayo11 days ago

    MJ goals... 👏🏾👍🏽🙌🏾💕

  91. Mia Reed

    Mia Reed11 days ago

    I LOOVVEEEE YOU🤣🤣🤣💕💕💕💕💕

  92. Migdalia Vasquez

    Migdalia Vasquez11 days ago


  93. vhayashi

    vhayashi11 days ago

    I love MJ SO MUCH!!!! Just making me LAUGH IS THERAPY FOR MY SOUL! THANK YOU MJ!!!! WE LOVE YOU DARLING!!! YOU ROCK WITH YOUR Badass Self!!! And YES you are the BEST!!!! 💝❤️💖💜💝💖

  94. Rosalina Nieves

    Rosalina Nieves11 days ago

    U look fckn hot

  95. Rosalina Nieves

    Rosalina Nieves11 days ago

    But after six yrs it's not easy to except he is not the ma n for me

  96. Rosalina Nieves

    Rosalina Nieves11 days ago

    My heart is so broken a six yr relationship broken and he is like nothing it's hard I cry myself to sleep every nite

  97. The Memo

    The Memo10 days ago

    Find a new one babygirl its the quickest way 💗💗 check out sheraseven as well. Love you MJ and yall 💗♥💯💋💋

  98. maureen wangui

    maureen wangui11 days ago

    Therapy therapy therapy

  99. Rosalina Nieves

    Rosalina Nieves11 days ago

    I can shed tears all day but when I hear from u I'm laughing u r amazing

  100. Zarene Monique

    Zarene Monique11 days ago

    MJ you got me Holleeeeeerrrin Toniiiight ! Talking about John ,Amanda with the 3 kids , Karen with the 2 bedroom and Quan !!!! Lawd talking about LMAO !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You make me laugh so much. I Love You MJ !! Keep us Inspired all while we are getting a good laugh ! #I#AINT#HERE#FOR#A#LONG#TIME #BUT#I#AM#HERE#FOR#A#GOOD #TIME

  101. Rosalina Nieves

    Rosalina Nieves11 days ago

    Iam a money magnet u always there for me

  102. Liz Stewart

    Liz Stewart11 days ago

    we are in awe mj 😄

  103. Shanell S. Davis

    Shanell S. Davis11 days ago

    You crack me up, I love you @mjharris

  104. Lauri White

    Lauri White11 days ago

    MJ I love you!! But nigga your description of niggas be off. What you say they say straight men don’t say. They don’t say shit! It’s like pulling teeth 🦷

  105. Woahh Maya

    Woahh Maya11 days ago

    Ya'll better turn them post notifications on, bitch!!

  106. Second Chance

    Second Chance11 days ago


  107. LaVonne Hawkins

    LaVonne Hawkins11 days ago

    MJ ☺☺always bringing it!😁Comic relief with dose of reality😁💜

  108. Brittainy Record

    Brittainy Record11 days ago

    Lord help 😂

  109. Nakia

    Nakia11 days ago

    If I was a gay man I promise you he would be wifed up. So sexy smart funny humble and confident. Bi women issues. 😂

  110. HelloMyFavoriteVids

    HelloMyFavoriteVids10 days ago